Everyone Makes Mistakes
Happy New Year! Traditionally, the new year is a time of resolutions to get healthy, save money, and get organized. This year, why not make a fresh start by letting go of some mistakes? You know, those purchases that didn't turn out the way you expected:

• that expensive pair of shoes or boots that you had to have (think Monica from "Friends") but hurt your feet
• the newest kitchen gadget used only once
• the ______ (you fill in the blank) that looked great online or in the store but doesn't fit or look good in your house

Let's face it; we all make mistakes. One of my favorite childhood songs from Sesame Street says:

Everyone makes mistakes, oh yes, they do.
Your sister and your brother and your dad and mother too.
Big people, small people, fat people, tall people,
Everyone makes mistakes, oh yes, they do!

Aside from its political incorrectness, its message for children applies to us as well. If we are honest, we all have some mistakes in our closets, cupboards, or drawers that are hard to let go. Because we spent money (sometimes a lot) and the item is "still good," we feel obligated to use or wear it again. The item is often put in a prominent spot to "remind" us to use or wear it. Instead of inspiration, we feel guilt. Each time we see it is like a slap on the hand: "Look at the mistake you made."

Why not let go of those mistakes? Release yourself from the guilt, and let the object go. Everyone makes mistakes.

"But I paid a lot of money for it!" you protest. I know. You have several options for an expensive mistake:

• donate it to charity and claim the tax deduction (remember to get a receipt)
• offer it as a raffle prize for a community group or silent auction
• sell it at a garage sale or online, or have someone sell it for you (see www.stores.ebay.com/Stuff-Chicks)
• give it to someone else (but make sure it isn't adding to their clutter) or post it on www.freecycle.org to find it a good home

Whatever you do, give yourself some grace and admit the mistake. Learn from it. It certainly won't be the last. Remember, you're human. Move on.
This new year give yourself the gift of a fresh start, and let go of those mistakes. Start with one. You'll feel the weight of that object lift from your shoulders, giving you more energy to start a new year.

© Renee Ursem, 2009.

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